Spain feels like home to me now. After those first three years of feeling like a refugee whose "real home" was down in Cape Town, something changed last summer, and for the past year I've felt very much at home in Alhaurin de la Torre. I've got used to queuing for an hour just to make a doctor's appointment. I'm not surprised if someone invites me out for lunch at 3 pm or for dinner at 9 pm. It's become normal that most shops are closed from 2.00 till 5.00, or that many restaurants don't even open until 8 pm. I know that some days the internet will work and some days it won't (which is not so different from living in Africa.)
Even so, there are some typically Spanish things that I don't do. I don't eat olives, for example, which is a surprise to most Spaniards, and I wouldn't dream of having bread spread with olive oil for breakfast. And I don't take a siesta: I've never been someone who could stop and sleep in the middle of the day and, in fact, I find that the siesta time is a good time to do my supermarket shopping - because many people are asleep and so there aren't such long queues at that time of day.
Yesterday, however, was a totally different situation. Remembering that Monday will be a public holiday, I popped out yesterday after lunch to buy milk and a few other things that I needed from the supermarket. My back was sore when I got home, so I took the prescription pills that the doctor gave me this week, and I lay down "for ten minutes" with a book. Some time later, I was aware of the cats waking me up - as they usually do around 6.00 or 7.00 am, when they've decided that I've slept long enough and it's now time for breakfast. As I stumbled downstairs (the arthritis makes me very stiff in the mornings) I suddenly noticed that I was fully clothed. It wasn't breakfast time at all, but was only 9.30 pm and I had slept for several hours since getting back from the shops. It must be due to the combination of medication I'm taking (anti-inflammatories and muscle relaxants) because it was the second time this week that I had nodded off in the afternoon. For someone who never takes a siesta, it was a rather strange feeling to realise that this time I had slept the whole afternoon away. After a glass of juice - and the next dose of the anti-inflammatory - I realised that I just needed to head back to bed again. I don't think I've slept this much in years; I usually only sleep like this if I'm ill with pneumonia or something like that.
Despite last night's disappointment, the cats cheerfully woke me around 7 o'clock again this morning and seemed very relieved that this time I did give them breakfast.