What made these women wise?

I was translating for our church service this morning. It's something I do several times a month - wearing headphones and translating the Spanish into English for visitors to the church or for members whose grasp of Spanish is not strong.

Today we came to the end of a four-week series on stewardship - on what it means to be faithful with everything that the Lord has entrusted to us. One week we looked at stewardship of our time, another week at stewardship of our finances and possessions, and still another week at stewardship of our gifts and talents. Today, for the last preaching in the series, the pastor was speaking about "integrated stewardship" - how it all fits together.

From passages in Matthew's Gospel chapters 24 and 25, he was asking the question: What does God expect of us if we are to be good stewards and hear His commendation: "Well done, good and faithful servant." ?

The two parables in Matthew 25 are well known: 

• the parable of the wise and foolish virgins with their lamps
• the parable of the three servants with their talents

Sermons on these two parables typically focus on the obvious: 

• using our talents rather than burying them
• being alert and ready for the Lord's return

So it was interesting that some of the truths the pastor highlighted this morning went beyond the usual surface explanations of these two stories that Jesus told. He highlighted aspects like looking ahead and being faithful to God for the long term, rather than being pressurised by an immediate need in the present.

For example, when the "foolish" girls ask the "wise" ones to give them some oil for their lamps, the ones commended for being wise say, "No." 

That might shock us. Their response may seem selfish, lacking in compassion or generosity. But the reason given (vs 9) makes it quite clear why those girls were wise. If they had given away some of their oil, none of the girls, neither the wise nor the foolish, would have had enough oil to do what the Lord, the Bridegroom, was asking of them: to keep their lamps burning right to the end, as long as God was asking them to.

The principle is this: If we give beyond what God is asking of us, we are not being good stewards; we are being "foolish."

Being compassionate, giving generously, and even sacrificing ourselves to do so, can all be very commendable. But such behaviour is only "wise" if it is not to the detriment of what God has entrusted to us, of what He actually asked us to do.

Reflecting later, I realised that the first two parables in Matthew 25 illustrate a few different ways that we can be poor stewards of what God has given us:

The first, illustrated by the story of the ten girls warns against:

• not being ready, not being sufficiently prepared
• not being wise, giving beyond what God wants or expects of us

The second parable warns against:

• holding back out of fear or self interest; having a wrong picture of God
• neglecting what we were asked to do and thus failing to be fruitful with what God has entrusted to us

Perhaps it's our personality that determines which of the mistakes we're most likely to fall into. But if we want to hear His, "Well done," we need to be wise in how we steward what He has given us and asked of us.